I just wanted to send you an email to say THANK YOU… thank you for all you have done for me. I feel fantastic and for the first time since January, I really feel alive!!! I feel so positive and excited about my future. I am so excited about Christmas – and this year for the first time in about 12 years, I don’t feel anxious or apprehensive – just excited!!!
I could not have imagined that with the year I have had that I would feeling this positive and energized. When I look back on those first few weeks, how low and broken I was; how desperate I was to hold onto something that just wasn’t meant to be. I truly do feel that this has happened because it was meant to be. It only takes a conversation with the kids to realise the nightmare of a family they were living in.
My son told me yesterday just how scared he was at times with the tension, arguing and anger that was in the home. I had no idea how they felt. They are so settled, happy and content now – as I am. So thank you – for guidance, wisdom, knowledge, techniques, and your belief in me. You are an amazing person and have been a huge part of my “recovery year”. God bless you for who you are!!! I realise that this is still a journey and the road will not be smooth sailing. However, I feel that I can face the start of each day with the knowledge, love and understanding I have received from you, and can finish each day that much stronger. So thank you for being the person you are, thank you for all that you have done for me on my journey and my children’s journey.
Tracey (Coffs Harbour)
I have found that working with these principals and using the tools provided by Vanessa, that my family has really settled down and are now much closer than before. We have a blended family and because I was so worried about protecting my first child from my husband (as they didn’t get along and competed for my attention) that I wasn’t able to be there for either of them. I was continually jumping around and choosing sides. Now I have learned how to manage that situation by listening and encouraging resolution as well as deal with my own guilt for not being with my child’s father. I am so grateful and highly recommend Vanessa for any struggling family.
Vanessa has such a calming influence and is full of practical advice. She has helped me integrate into my new family (my wife had two children from a previous marriage) and navigate being a parent of pre-teen and teenage years. Without her support and advice, I’m sure I would have continued to struggle, instead I have bonded well and really appreciate and understand my step children.
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An insightful day that provided a rare opportunity to look deep within myself and my family to create a new chapter in my life. I am grateful, thank you!
Great workshop to encourage inner transformations and to reiterate ones awareness of self.
This workshop is such an amazing experience as it helps shift the baggage you have been carrying around for years. I got to see my husband do something positive towards getting better. It was lovely.
I will be back, and I have not felt this way in over a decade. I feel so relaxed, like an uncoiled spring. How I feel now I wish to improve and continue.
I enjoyed the Effective Discipline workshop
I liked the way Vanessa kept following the intuitive impulse within yourself and others
When I attended the ‘Negotiating with a Young Terrorist’ workshop I got a new insight as to the parent’s role when it comes to negotiating with my young ones. Thank you!
The workshop was great and contained ‘real’ processing.
What I valued most about the workshop was that I was able to feel in to my ‘wound’ again in the presence of others. Vanessa facilitated the workshop with a strong holding.
I was blown away how alike the issues of the group were and how easily I could identify with the other participants. I valued understanding how aligned we all are energetically. The delivery pace was great and totally honoured each person.
After the very first day of the course things changed overnight. And by that I mean the way I think and the way I deal with my kids. I realised that SO many things were not their problem, but mine. And that all the little things that bothered me, made me angry, or were just downright not working could be changed, fixed, altered or adjusted. Some things I basically let go.
But there is obviously way more to the course than this. I probably wasn’t quite prepared for how intense and full-on it is. Well, it would have to be to succeed in making a parent change the way they parent. Every Friday I would come home totally exhausted but also excited and happy that really positive changes were being made.
And the other thing I will say about the Peaceful Parenting course is that it not only changes and affects the way you deal with your kids, but also everyone else in your life from your partner to your parents to your friends. It teaches you how to really listen, how to let go of your own agenda. It isn’t an easy fix, magical solution that will stop working at the age of 10, 13, 15 or 20. You are skills and insights that will help you change the way you think and deal with things for the rest of your life.
I can’t recommend this course enough, it has changed my family for the better. But like I said, it is intense – so be prepared!